Every month, the Insecure Writers Support Group hosts a blog hop with an optional question meant to inspire and encourage other writers. Special thanks to founder Alex Cavanaugh and to this month’s co-hosts, Victoria Marie Lees, Kim Lajevardi, Nancy Gideon, and Cathrina Constantine.
On a regular basis, I deal with distractions by grouping tasks (like running errands, making phone calls, or responding to email) together during one part of the day. I'm also a fan of setting a timer for writing (with no other activities allowed). Sometimes I purposely leave my phone in a different room. And lighting a candle is a butt-in-chair guarantee. I can't leave the candle unattended!
Distractions tend to be a short term problem. What about the long road? Thanks to Jen Breach for the guest post tacking this topic.
But I am not a rudderless ship, a stringless kite, a spiral-flying balloon with the air thpthpthpthping out of an uncinched neck. I just keep a longer creative view than day to day. Month to month suits me better. At the end of each month my trusted accountability crew and I share process letters. They are letters of reflection and gratitude, where self-awareness and honesty are celebrated. They go like this:
- Hello: A paragraph about how I am doing. Not creatively, really, but general life stuff.
- What I Did This Month: A bullet pointed paragraph listing what I achieved (with whatever detail I want to share, or not). It’s kind of astonishing to reflect on a month’s worth of work all at once.
- What I Didn’t Do This Month, But Thought I Would: A bullet pointed paragraph listing what slipped, and why. No excuses, rather, objective reasons. A guilt-free zone.
- What I Intend to Do Next Month: A bullet pointed paragraph listing what I hope to achieve. I may roll over things I didn’t do that I thought I would, or I can let those go. Take a deep breath, get realistic, remember to leave space for fun stuff. Ambiguous phrases like “Start X,” “Work some more on Y,” “Keep going on Z,” are a-okay.
- Gratitude: A paragraph to reflect on all the people who kept you creative. Feel the feels, know that you are loved, remember who believes in you.
It never fails to surprise me what I have done in just a month, and the community who helped me get there one more time. And it never fails to inspire me to get my butt back in the seat and my fingers back on the keyboard. Writing is a long road, and counting in months makes sense to me.
Jen Breach (they/them) is a queer, nonbinary writer of 30 picture books, chapter books, and graphic novels for kids, including an eight book series featuring the first nonbinary main character for the age group, and a nonfiction about the politics of global foodways, which won a Junior Library Guild gold standard selection.